Terrible night with my back

I have been really busy, watching my nephew and getting ready for my one only son is getting marry. They are going to a JP, then on May 17, we are going to have a small reception for them. I wish I could say its a happy time, but the future in-law of my son feels that their daughter should wait till she has been divorce for 3 years. She has been divorce for 18 months, she has an 18 months old baby from that marriage. My son and his future are both 32 years old, they were high school sweethearts and found themselves back together about a year ago. My son loves the baby and plans on adopting her in a year after they have been married. I only have one son and I am thrilled, but with her parents it's making it tough. But just like everything else we will make it.
I got a call from the Dr yesterday and got a scare that me that I would have to pay 20 percent of the total procedure. Starting with 1200.00 for the leads, this would be my part. Now the hospital bill could be over40,000 with me paying 20 percent of that. I was disappointed with and can not afford to pay for this. I called my insurance and found out that my out of pocket expensive for the year is 3000.00 and so far I have spend 1500. So the good news is my cost for the procedure could not be over 1500. So now I wait for the date to have it done and hopefully it won't interfere with my son's wedding and reception.
Today I am going to my general Dr for my pre-op check-up, hopefully everything will go okay.
My older nephew is moving home tomorrow back to GA, and in the next couple months my mom will be coming to move in with us. Life keeps moving on and my front door is a revolving doors for my family.
Well  I went and saw my primary DR and was cleared for surgery.
I just made reservation for my son and his future wife a honeymoon night at Disney for one night. I think they deserve it with all the sh... A's mother is putting them through, so I get to babysit my granddaughter for the evening.
The pain in my back hasn't gotten any better today. Hopefully tomorrow it will be better.
Time close for the night!!!